3 Powerful Signs to Know You’re Surprisingly Ready for Dating

3 Powerful Signs to Know You’re Surprisingly Ready for Dating

Relationships are an important part of life. They are not only a general part of society in every culture, being romantized in alot of movies, its also a need for most of Humanity. Romantical and sexual needs is something we all have, exept aromantic and asexual folks. But for the majority, we strive and life for a romantic connections. However you first be ready for a relationship, before you search for it. Striving for it is normal, but there are still points that you should be fulfill, to not disappoint your partner with a bad breakup. Here are 3 ways to find out if you are ready for Dating.

1. Are you emotional Availiable?

To even think about a relationship, you should be emotionally available. Social or mental problems can be very problematic in a young relationship, especially if a relationship is only used as an aid. Often, people start a relationship even though they themselves are unhappy in life or have severe mental problems. Any kind of emotional baggage from events or previous relationships will eventually cause problems. This can lead to serious arguments, if not another breakup. 

Ask yourself if you are currently happy and fulfilled with your life, because without it, your happiness will be dependent on that very relationship. So what happens after a break-up? Right, you are unhappy and unfulfilled again. That’s why a relationship should only ever be the icing on the cake, never the cake itself. It will improve your life, yes, but it is not the foundation of your life. So before you start a relationship, you should be at least reasonably happy and fulfilled in life. But also check if you have good friends, a life goal, hobbies, and a passion. These things are the driving force behind a fulfilling life; without them, a relationship will be more difficult.

I have experienced this myself in the past; I was completely dependent on a relationship. Not only was my happiness dependent, but I was also socially dependent. And so it came about that I completely fell to the ground after a difficult breakup. I was unhappy, pretty much. But I was also alone in a city, without friends, without a goal, without my family, and my only hobby was gaming. This cost me a lot, especially as I had problems with my studies and had to extend them as a result. What’s more, I still feel the effects today. 

So be sure you are emotionally available before you start a relationship. The breakup of a relationship can set you back a lot in your life, so try to check this carefully.

2. Do you got a good Mindset?

“Taking the next best thing” is a well-known saying for the behavior of dating distress. Someone who wants a relationship so badly that they don’t care with whom. If this sounds wrong to you, you’re already on the right track. But there are other mindsets you need for dating.

Above all, you should have a “growth mindset,”  i.e., be prepared to grow, not just on your own but as a couple. Relationships are work, and you should be aware of that. If you’re not prepared to invest, the relationship will fail. Also, you shouldn’t take the first person you can get. It’s important to know your preferences and implement them consistently. Of course, feelings can develop, but they are useless if the person doesn’t really match your preferences. 

You should also be prepared to be really faithful and loyal, as well as trust your partner. Be aware that, ideally, this should be the last person you kiss, sleep with, etc. It’s your great love; that’s what the best-case scenario should look like. That’s why half-hearted relationships are just as bad. Instead, find someone who really suits you and “commit” to them. 

But you should also be aware that there are many dating opportunities out there for you. We’ll leave out how you can reach them, but they do exist. No matter how beautiful, intelligent, or rich you are, there will always be someone suitable for you. This may be very optimistic thinking, but it is true. Even if you are not blessed with beauty, there is a person who is. If you’re not very intelligent, there’s bound to be someone who is. So don’t be insecure about your weaknesses, because there are people who have no problems with them.

3. Are you able to invest empathicaly?

Yes, in addition to all these factors, you should also be empathetic. You live and love with a person, so you should also be prepared to be there for them and understand them. A relationship works precisely because you should understand your partner’s problems, worries, and needs. If you’re too focused on yourself, you won’t notice them and will destroy your relationship in the long term. This is very problematic for a long-term relationship and only creates wounds. 

Especially when arguments arise, you should be prepared to find a compromise. You could also say that stubbornness leads to divorce. So always be prepared to find solutions and never give up. Yes, sometimes you will both be desperate; that’s part of it. But the beautiful moments in a relationship are the arguments. It takes energy, but it will give you more energy back. Be aware that the relationship will require effort. Giving up is not an option in a relationship, as long as it is not an insurmountable crisis. 

Also, be aware of the rough edges of your special person; you should love them as much as the good sides. Everything is part of it, so love everything. Take care of your person with the same love that you would like to experience yourself. This is a golden principle for a happy relationship.

Are you ready for a Relationship? Do the next step and learn how to be confident!